The Blogger’s reply [Repost]

okay. weee. the title says it all. daldal ko noh? =))

Lovely-LH Said,

“if you’re thinking the perfect gift will cement your relationship and show how much you really care – it’s limerence – because that’s about you, not them.”

is it? this thought would most probably in lined with love and not limerence, it’s the first stage of a relationship right? so thinking abt cementing the relationship most likely something u would think when u’re there out of limerence and have fallen in love.. just a thought

admin Said,

Interesting point you make

I based that reference to gift buying on a conversation I’d had with a bunch of my girlfriends. The discussion centred around the little things that make you buzz when you first start seeing someone & buying the first gift. Whether it’s a Birthday gift, Christmas or just something little & romantic…it’s quite an exciting experience that seemed to all of us to be more about how it made us feel (the one buying the gift) to be purchasing the gift (almost like a ritual) rather than how we thought it would make the other person feel to receive it.

That’s why I attributed that reference to Limerence rather than Love.

Lovely-LH Said,

omg. i didnt get it. lols. my nose is kinda bleeding, lol ,kidding, anyway i wont expect any explanations further but if u would, i’d appreciate that. seriously i didnt really get it. or maybe i’m just too lazy to analyze things now. lol. i’ll be back here on ur block interesting. thnks!

kekekek. that says it all. now shoo! bye! =))

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